Who doesn’t love the idea of a striptease, performed by candlelight for a soft and sexy show, or under the pulsating vibrations of a strobe light for a more erotic version?
The Sexy Setup
Tell your lover he’s invited to his own private strip club— and his private dancer will perform any move he desires.
Rules & Tools
Purchase candles (for a romantic setting) or a strobe light (available at party stores) for a more erotic setting. Set up some background music to fit the role you’re going to play: soft and sexy for a one-on-one strip routine; pulsating, harder rock for the strobe light show; or exotic, seductive music for some belly dancing. Remember this key to a good striptease: Keep your eyes locked on your partner while removing your clothing or making your moves.
Playing the Game
Sweet and safe: Light as many candles as possible, and dress in clothing that can be easily removed, such as a dress or blouse that buttons down the front or a skirt that zips at the side. Don’t forget the sexy lingerie underneath! Remove your clothing piece by piece, taking time to push up your breasts, lean over seductively, and tease him by coming close, then moving away.
Hot and spicy: Get the room completely dark, and wear clothes that you can easily tear off. Turn on the strobe lightand perform a striptease—the light will turn your maneuvers into a series of erotic snapshots with one sexually charged image after another.
Up the Ante
• Put on some Middle Eastern music, darken under your eyes with makeup, wrap yourself in scarves and chunky jewelry, and gyrate like an exotic belly dancer. Dip and sway to the music, and remove your scarves slowly and seductively, all the while arching your back, running your hand over your nipples or belly, and swaying your hips invitingly.
• Hire a stripper or an exotic dancer to visit you and your lover at home, and be sure to tell him (or her) that you’re both the guests of honor. Or visit an upscale strip club together and get a private dance to enjoy as a couple.
