You’ve heard the phrase “backdoor man”? This time the roles are reversed: You get to control the action at your male lover’s back door!
The Sexy Setup
Write your male lover a sexy note and tell him you want to explore his back door. Promise you’ll be gentle as you investigate his backside assets, but you’re sure there are some new pleasures zones worth exploring!
Rules & Tools
You’ll want to line up a number of anal toys for this game, and plenty of lubrication. Have these (or other toys) on hand: butt plug, strap-on dildo, anal vibrator, anal beads, or any pocket-size or finger vibrator. Set up a low-lit, sexy scene for this game, and line a couch with fur, create a nest of soft blankets on the floor, or make up your bed with silk sheets.
Playing the Game
Sweet and safe: If this is your lover’s first time with anal play, take it slow. Dress in your sexiest lingerie and help him loosen up by serving him a drink. Then take out your toys and let him look at them close up. Explain why you think each one might turn him on, but be open if he’s not interested.
Kiss and caress him in your usual way, then slowly move to fondling and sucking his penis and nibbling his testicles. Try running a finger vibrator along his inner thighs, up to his testicles, and along his perineum. Be sure to ask if he likes the feeling, and if he does, continue with your backdoor play, perhaps inserting the butt plug or anal beads while you suck him off.
Hot and spicy: You know your man’s open to any anal suggestion, so take it up a notch and explore your own fantasies. Lube up the strap-on dildo and give it to him up the ass like the strong and sexy backdoor woman you are, or just insert a vibrating butt plug and ride him like a cowgirl!
Up the Ante
• Play a game of “Backdoor Woman Meets Backdoor Man.” Both of you should choose your favorite butt plug, then have intercourse doggie style!
