When she plays with your balls and your finger rolls and mouth suck on her nipples. Wearable and hands-free vibrators are a great hand for this time. These vibrators—some for external clitoral stimulation, others for both external and internal stimulation— free up your hands to do other things while working their vibrating magic on your most sensitive parts.
Wearable Clitoral Vibes
They are small vibrators attached to elastic straps that fit around her hips and thighs, so she can actually wear the vibrator. If you like positions where you are facing each other with lots of skin-to-skin contacts. Wearable vibes are great to use during intercourse in these positions. To use this kind of vibe, step into the straps like a pair of panties, then pull it up and position the vibrator so that it’s right where she wants it.
Tighten and adjust the straps so they feel snug against you. Wearable vibrators are designed with intercourse in mind, so none of the straps should be blocking her vagina or anus. Once it feels good,
you’re free to play with his hair, hold his face, tweak his nipples, and wrap your arms around him.
If you like the idea of a hands-free experience, you may consider trying a pair of vibrating panties. Vibrating panties are fun little items that come in a variety of different fabrics and styles, from satin and crotchless to latex or lacy. The panty usually has a built-in pocket or pouch to hold a removable vibrator. They may not work for intercourse, but they are great for masturbation or to wear out on a date where no one knows you have them on. If you pick vibrating panties with remote control, your partner can carry the remote while you are at the mercy of his button-pushing.
Wearable Clitoral Vibrators + Yab-Yum sex position
Where one partner sits in the other partner’s lap and they face each other. The woman should strap on the wearable vibrator before he gets into the position. The man sits with his legs loosely crossed and the woman sits in his lap and wraps her legs around his waist and torso. He can use firm pillows under his thighs if he needs more support for his legs. If it’s not comfortable for him to keep his legs crossed, then he can stretch them out in front of him. If he needs back support, he can lean against the wall or headboard. As she gets into his lap, she can rise up slightly on her knees, and he can hold the base of his penis to assist her, and she can slowly come down onto it. This is meant to be a relaxing, meditative position, so once you’re in it, you shouldn’t feel any tension or strain.
Look into each other’s eyes, and take advantage of the closeness this position affords you. Because there is so much skin-to-skin contact, there isn’t a lot of room for a vibrator or even to slip a hand between her legs to stimulate her clitoris. Wearable clitoral vibrators are perfect for Yab-Yum: It can nestle against her clit, buzzing quietly, as you experience slow, rocking, gentle thrusting.
References:
Taormino, T. (2010). The big book of sex toys: From vibrators and dildos to swings and slings-playful and kinky bedside accessories that make your sex life amazing. Gloucester, MA: Quiver.
