Here’s a fun game for spicing up your relationship. This is especially well suited for couples who need a pick-me-up in the adventure department!
The Sexy Setup
Make a plan ahead of time with your lover, then send her a sexy note to remind her of the details. “Meet me at Oliver’s at 8 p.m.; be sure to wear your sexiest outfit.”
Rules & Tools
Decide ahead of time where you’re heading after the pickup: back to your place, to a hotel room, to the car, etc. You should also decide who gets picked up and who is on the prowl (swap roles the next time) and whether flirting with other patrons is okay or off-limits. But don’t plan out the dialogue or the action—leave some room for spontaneity.
Playing the Game
Sweet and safe: Ask her to dress the part she wants to play—here’s her chance to move outside her comfort zone. Maybe she’s got a new top with a plunging neckline that you haven’t seen, a short skirt that shows off her legs, or a pair of thigh-high boots that she’s been dying to wear. Tell her to find a spot at the bar and let you do the work. She can play hard to get, act like a tease, or flirt openly. Draw out the pickup as long as possible to heighten the tension.
Hot and spicy: Add some role-playing to your game. Tell her to pretend she’s been stood up and she’s angry at men in general; this way, you’ll have to seduce her by playing extra nice. Or have her act like a slut, tease you a bit, then take you by the hand and give you a steamy blow job in the men’s bathroom or a hidden closet. Alternatively, act like a shy, geeky virgin who needs instruction from an experienced older woman.
Up the Ante
• Invite a female friend to join in (but don’t tell your lover). Ask your friend to fl irt with your lover openly—a little competition can add some spice to the situation (as long as things don’t get out of hand). Have a secret word or code for when it’s time to back off completely.
• Alternatively, invite a male friend to join in (but don’t tell your lover). Have your friend flirt openly with your lover or even try and pick her up. Chances are his attention will boost her ego (and he may turn her on in different ways). Have a secret word for when it’s time to back off completely so you can complete the pickup!
