This is a fun game based on fear, suspense—and pleasure, of course!
The Sexy Setup
Tell your lover you’re going to play a game of surprise sex, and she’s going to star in this game.
Rules & Tools
You’ll need a bed or footstool, a blindfold, and lubrication. (You can also use sex toys if desired.)
Playing the Game
Sweet and safe: Slowly and sensuously undress your lover, and have her lie naked on the bed or footstool. Blindfold her, then lubricate different parts of your body, such as your fingers, knuckles, toes, elbows, chin, nose, genitals, and so on. Touch her in various places and ask her to guess which part of your body you’re touching her with. Draw this out and have fun—try and caress her breasts with your toes, massage her clitoris with your knuckle, or rub her labia with your lubricated elbow.
Hot and spicy: Tell your lover to imagine the bed as a boat, you as a shark, and her as the victim. Pretend you’re the shark, silently creeping up to attack the boat. Circle the bed or footstool while she tries to guess where you are. Build suspense by coming at the victim from various angles. Tickle her nipples, then suck her toes. Nibble her breasts with your teeth, or run a fingernail down the inside of her thigh. Stay clear of the genitals as you build suspense. Stop moving for a few minutes to heighten her anticipation, then suddenly kiss her hard and fondle her genitals. Move away again, then continue the teasing and suspense until she’s quivering in anticipation. Finish the game however suits you best!
Up the Ante
• Use your favorite sex toys to tease or stimulate your partner, bring along a feather, or introduce other household items to build suspense.
